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A registered dietitian reveals how to identify what's really behind your dessert cravings—and shares tips to keep them in check.
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Whether it’s the comfort of a warm cookie or the creamy indulgence of ice cream, desserts have a way of making us feel better—at least for a little while. But as we become more aware of how added sugars impact our health—from increased inflammation to mood swings—those sugar-laden treats don’t seem quite as worth it.
So, how can we satisfy our sweet tooth without going overboard? The answer lies in identifying what drives our cravings and reprogramming our treat-driven habits.
Desserts are more than just food—they’re emotional, cultural, and habitual. That post-dinner slice of cake might feel like relaxation, or the mid-afternoon brownie might be a reward for powering through the day. But at the root of those habits are triggers that, once identified, can help guide you toward healthier choices. They are:
Hunger cues. If you’re genuinely hungry, your body may seek sugar for quick energy. Our brains require about 130 grams of glucose a day to function. Sugar does its job in that it spikes your blood sugar quickly, but then it crashes, leaving you tired and craving more.
Fatigue or stress. Poor sleep or a hectic day can leave you reaching for sugary comfort foods. This isn’t just emotional; your body is literally asking for energy. Before indulging, check in with yourself: Are you thirsty? Have you eaten a balanced meal? Sometimes the answer to your craving might be a glass of water or a turkey sandwich, or even something like a power nap or a walk.
Emotional eating. Sometimes, we associate desserts with joy, relaxation, or celebration. This is often more about habit than hunger. For example, you might feel you need a sweet treat while curled up on the couch, watching TV. These rituals can be replaced with non-food habits, like a calming cup of herbal tea or a coloring book. Even a relaxing bath can signal “day’s end” without dessert.
Once you’ve identified the triggers behind your cravings, you can start implementing healthier dessert habits. You don’t need to eliminate sugar entirely—just shift your focus to better-for-you alternatives, as well as rituals that serve your body and mind.
Take a pause
When a craving strikes, take a moment to assess it. Are you truly hungry, or is it emotional? If it’s the latter, ask yourself what you really need: relaxation, energy, or simply a distraction. Sometimes, just this pause can help you make a better, more thoughtful choice.
Create new rituals
Habits are hard to break if they’re not replaced with something equally satisfying. Many of us associate dessert with relaxation or celebration. Shift that mindset by creating new rituals that feel just as indulgent. A cozy blanket and a good book, a soothing skin care routine, or a short meditation can provide the same sense of calm without the sugar.
Think ahead
If you really want a sugary treat, plan for it. Instead of mindlessly reaching for the cookie jar, prepare or portion out the treat you want to indulge in. Taking the time to scoop yourself a small bowl of ice cream prevents you from absent-mindedly digging away at the pint with a spoon. One or two cookies on a plate helps you avoid overindulging. I wouldn’t recommend treating yourself every night, but instead in moderation and with intention.
Sometimes a dessert feels non-negotiable. When you just need to have something sweet, try one of these healthier dessert options:
By understanding your triggers and replacing dessert rituals with nourishing alternatives, you can still indulge in the joy of a sweet treat—just in a way that supports your long-term health.
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